
Back in December you might remember my post of a similar heading, Jesus v Santa. Both here and on my blog it got quite a bit of attention including being featured of many other blogs as a reflection of how to combine the two.
Now we are at the same demise, not that I view it that way at all but each year I find that my religious beliefs are questioned as to what we celebrate, how we celebrate and how we can ‘condone’ imaginary people into our children’s minds.
Well there is only one answer in my opinion. Are they asking BECAUSE I’m a religious person or are they asking because they are not and want to subconsciously gain permission for their children to believe in the "paganist" belief in the fertile bunny rabbit myth?

I dunno about the Pagan’s beliefs, I’ve never really studied them but as bunnies are cute and harmless {and who didn’t cry at Watership Down???} doing a very similar thing to Santa only on a smaller scale I have NO issue at all with my 4 year old son thinking it was the bunny rabbit that got him his basket of goodies on Easter morning!
Why?
Because imagination is the most powerful tool a child has, it gives them confidence, encourages them to think and explore. In the real world there is Jesus Christ who looks out for them, loves them, guides them and over all influences their lives. I admit though that there will not be a heap of items that are 90% sugar 10% chocolate and other dentistry money making items! I do set a budget for these gifts because I dont want to deflect from the real meaning of Easter in any way at all. Our baskets usually include 3 books each, a favourite chocolate, and 5 inexpensive novelty items. Add that {including basket} and they each get ten treats! ;)
This year my son will be old enough to understand more about the resurrection of Christ. I believe he is mature and curious enough to want to know about the death of Christ and then his rebirth so I have that covered too. Charley already believes that Jesus is magic, he already knows that Jesus is his best friend and already has the Lord as the centre of his life so what is there to worry about?

On our bookshelf are a range of mythical books that include the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, Tooth Fairy {and yes I do write letters from the tooth fairy and sign it from a super duper fairy with a super duper name!!}.
We also have books about Little Red Riding Hood, Chicken Licken, Stuart Little, Bear and the Big Blue House, Old Bear, Old Mother Hubbard and a lot more. Our dvd shelf holds titles such as Mary Poppins, Bed knobs and broomsticks, Alice in Wonderland, Bambi, Lion King and other well known titles. I do not shy away from any imaginary being that is good, happy, prosperous and fun for any of my kids. I can’t even say that I take it serious when my older kids ask me to admit that Santa and the Bunny are just not real! I mean, come on! In this world we have to believe right? ;)
Seriously, I have never denied there mythical existence but I’ve never admitted their unreal presence either, nor do I intend to change that because one day I’m going to become a grandma and I want my children to be able to say to their children ‘well son, your grandma never told me they weren’t real’ cos I know the time will come when grandma will become old and doddery and the grandchild will want to ask their Mum or Dad for verification of the true mythical beings. One day will also come when I am not around anymore and what am I leaving behind if not imagination, fun and lots of fantastic memories?
From a very young age my kids have had the smallest thing celebrated, just because I want them to realise that fun is so easy, effortless and worthwhile so long as it's in it's correct context. When my oldest has his first night without nappies {oops diapers for my American friends!!} he was around 3ish so his younger brother and I decided to draw him a poster with happy faces, hearts and kisses and pin it to the back of a dining chair that we dressed as a kings seat where we served bacon, eggs, sausage etc for a special breakfast. A few years and many more celebrations later, I remember having a party with my nieces and nephews because my now 18 year old saved his first goal whist playing against a very strong football {soccer} team!
Charley had a celebratory mini cake when he got his first gold star at pre-school after he was formerly congratulated in front of all parents and children for being such a positive and happy helper and influence in the entire nursery! These personality traits are not induced by any mythical characters but by the every day learning, understanding and acceptance of the Lord in his life. As young as he is he knows that Jesus is his friend, his brother and his carer. He knows that to show our love to Jesus and Heavenly Father we need to behave in a certain way and for the most part he abides by the expectations that he understands.

The Lord will NEVER be out done by Santa, The Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny, never in a bazillion years and as long as the teachings of the Lord, his resurrection and the true meaning of Him in our lives, hearts and minds is taught to our children with more conviction than the mythical beings then we are not harming anyone. The day will come when our children stop believing in these beings, no matter how much we don’t admit it, they will be grateful that we haven’t admitted it even, or at least that’s what my 12 year old says just now. Some things are purely for the imagination, for fun and for the bringing together of the family and friends. Other things are for time and all eternity whilst here on Gods earth.
My children are 20, 18, 12 and 4, all of them have NO inhibitions, doubts or insecurities with or about me. There is nothing I can do that will encourage them to think they are not my lifeline, my reason for being much less just how much I love and respect them. Why? I like to think most of it is because not only have I tried to bring the Lord to the centre of all our lives but I’ve also been the best joker and happy-ness maker I can be no matter how rough things have got for us. These are the memories my kids tell me about, what I see in their journals or online bio’s. These are the things that I hear them say to their friends when asked if I am old enough to be their Mum. Imagination is a God given talent that everyone of us has, truly, but like anything it has to be kept in moderation.
So to me, the Easter Bunny ROCKS!! ;)
So, what are your thoughts on this and why???
Debs] More of Debs waffle over on Life as Me.