Sunday, August 30, 2009

quotable quote: creative inspiration

Inspiration is inspiration, whether the end result is a painted masterpiece, a soul-searching sonnet, a richly coloured home-made quilt or a batch of freshly baked rock buns. We shouldn't diminish our creativity by despising the results of our inspiration, but instead celebrate and exploit the wonderful feeling of elevated energy and enthusiasm we experience when we feel inspired. That quickening of the senses and the heightening of the imagination are, I'm sure, just the same for the Matisses and Wrens and Brownings as they are for the rest of us. It's just that they can do different things with their inspired talents.
~Jane Brocket
The Gentle Art of Domesticity, p. 16
image "The Sheep" by Stuck in Customs



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Saturday, August 29, 2009

Life is O'erflowing With Beautiful Things

My little boy loves this video. We have watched it every day since we discovered it on the Friend's main page. I hope you enjoy it as much as we have. It has brought some fun snuggly moments and of course it is a great message of the the many beautiful things we have to be thankful for.

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Gospel Art Family Scripture Study

Well, those of you who my other blog have seen the several ideas, thoughts, and directions I have gone in hopes to find the perfect scripture study method for our young family. Each of them stuck for a time but have since dwindled away. Our scripture studies have gradually changed and now we are on a whole new method - Gospel Art Family Scripture Study.

So far it has been wonderful (not always perfect but it works). I enjoyed doing some of our previous styles and we may go back to them later but for now this is what we are up to when it comes to family scripture study. It couldn't be much simpler. We are simply going through the entire Gospel Art Book, page by page. The front of the book has verses already selected to go along with each picture and we just narrow it down to a small selection and read straight from the scriptures. We often read only a few verses and just simply tell the rest of the story.

Our little boy is just about 2 1/2 now and it is so fun to see him come to know many of the great leaders and prophets of the scriptures. He can recognize so many of them now like Adam and Eve, Noah, Jonah, Daniel, David and Goliath, etc. The time spent doing our little scripture study is very little (1-5 minutes, depending on the day) but the pay off is great!

When we finish the whole book we may go back through again and reinforce the things we have learned and learn in greater detail about each picture and it's great message. The visual that each picture presents truly helps the scriptures to come alive.

You can read more about the Gospel Art book and how to get one as well as browse the pictures it contains by taking a peek at a previous post HERE.





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Friday, August 28, 2009

Foto Friday - Photos As Traditions

I know many, if not most have you, have already started the new school year. For my kids, that exciting day is this coming Monday. Just last night, we walked to the school to find out their new teachers for the year. My kids love school and look forward to the beginning of a new year.

I look forward to the rebirth of order and routine in our house. There's nothing like the school year to keep us consistent. With 4 of my 5 kids in school, it's either routine or death. ;)

I thought I'd share one of our Back-to-School traditions with you. Like so many of our family's traditions, it involves a camera. Before the kids leave for school on the first day, I have them line up in our front yard for a few quick pictures. I am always sure to get the kids to stand together, as well as individually, and I love including their backpacks in the shots. Their backpacks, which start out huge in comparison with their own size, add a fun perspective.

I challenge you to do the same, as a visual growth chart. It doesn't have to be the first day of school. It could be a birthday or the beginning of a new year. Many new parents take a picture each month of their baby sitting next to a stuffed animal. At one month, the animal dwarfs the baby, but month by month you see growth until suddenly Baby is bigger than the toy. Don't have kids? It's just as fun to keep a visual "growth" of you and your spouse or pet....or even your garden.

My kids complain a little about all of the pictures we take, but I know that years form now, they will appreciate this record of their childhood. As a mom, looking back on pictures like this makes my heart flitter just a little. How do they grow so fast?!

First Day of School 2007, T (1st Grade) and N (3rd Grade)

First Day of School 2008, N (4th Grade), T (2nd Grade), and R (Kindergarten)

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Lolli is a lifelong member of the Church, married to a convert. She has five kids--3 girls and 2 boys (and a camera that goes everywhere she goes!). Read more on her personal blog, Better in Bulk.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Getting Back to the Temple

So I don't get out much. Like, hardly at all. It's hard to leave my son, even to go to the temple.

But you've had them, right? Times where you have a really intense question that needs to be answered, and you feel that within the walls of the temple is the only place you will find peace. I had been struggling with a question of that nature recently.

But how could I get to the temple? It's two hours away, and we only have one car. Beyond that, I have to arrange everything with my son's nurse so I can go. It's quite a big to-do, so most of the time I just don't end up going.

So back to my question. After discussing the issue with a dear friend, who suggested that I fast and pray about it, I decided I'd go to the temple the next day. We happened to have a car on loan from a vacationing friend, and I praised my good autmotive fortune while planning my trip. I cleared plans with our day nurse and was all set to go when I had the thought to call my vacationing friend to see if she wasn't already back in town. Well, she was, and so I figured my trip was off.

A little while later I texted a neighbor about another subject. At the end of my text, as an afterthought, I asked her to tell me the next time she was planning a temple trip so I could tag along. She texted back and informed me she was going the next day--!!!!--and I was welcome to join her. So I went!

Needless to say, with a pattern so meticulously arranged by Heavenly Father, I had one of the best experiences I have ever had at the temple. I got answers to not just my question, but to another one that had been lurking at the back of my head. I am at peace with the decision I needed to make.

I have, as a result, decided to make temple worship more of a priority, and have discussed with temple workers a way to make it easier for me to do so while we happen to be in Dallas for Dakin's numerous medical appointments. If I plan it right, I should be able to make it at least once a month.

I'm so glad that Heavenly Father orchestrated the whole thing for me. It was really a faith-builder that He does concern himself with each of us.

How has He made things "work out" for you?









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Monday, August 24, 2009

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Sunday, August 23, 2009

quotable quotes: developing character

"To think that this is my twentieth birthday, and that I've left my teens behind me forever," said Anne [Shirley], who was curled up on the hearth-rug with Rusty in her lap, to Aunt Jamesina who was reading in her pet chair. They were alone in the living room. . .

"I suppose you feel kind of, sorry" said Aunt Jamesina. "The teens are such a nice part of life. I'm glad I've never gone out of them myself."

Anne laughed.

"You never will, Aunty. You'll be eighteen when you should be a hundred. Yes, I'm sorry, and a little dissatisfied as well. Miss Stacy told me long ago that by the time I was twenty my character would be formed, for good or evil. I don't feel that it's what it should be. It's full of flaws."

"So's everybody's," said Aunt Jamesina cheerfully. "Mine's cracked in a hundred places. Your Miss Stacy likely meant that when you are twenty your character would have got its permanent bent in one direction or 'tother, and would go on developing in that line. Don't worry over it, Anne. Do your duty by God and your neighbor and yourself, and have a good time. That's my philosophy and it's always worked pretty well."
~ L.M. Montgomery
Anne of the Island. Ch. XIX "An Interlude"
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Saturday, August 22, 2009

I choose to do this

I was called to be a part time missionary at my local LDS Employment Center in April. At first I was really excited and loved being a part of something that is so needed in this time. Months have gone by and I've been growing increasingly disenchanted with my calling and having serious thoughts about asking to be released.
I haven't because I have to stick it out and finish out my 12 months, because I have to make my family proud, because I don't want to have to admit failure. Today after I came home in a bad mood once again I uttered to myself, "Only 7 more months, you just have to do this." The more I said it to myself the more annoyed I got until I had an inspiration. I don't HAVE to do this, I should CHOOSE to do this. It's hard admitting that it's me that is the problem and that I'm the one who needs an attitude adjustment.

It's so much easier blaming the stresses in my life and anything that goes wrong on someone, something else. I've been realizing that when I do that I grumble at everything, I criticize others more often, and I feel sorry for myself a lot more. To be blunt, my name should be changed to Leslie the Grouch. And when she comes around to visit I don't feel the Spirit. I feel distant from God because I don't pray with gratitude, listen to my lessons with an open heart or try to be thankful for the opportunity I've been given to serve his children as a missionary.
 
So I'm making a renewed effort to be more grateful that I can serve. I'm making an effort to be more sympathetic and patient with all the people who walk through those doors, whether they're looking for help with employment or one of my fellow missionaries that need me to complete a task. I'm making an effort to choose to do this instead of feeling forced. It's such a peaceful feelings knowing that can be applied in all areas of my life. I choose to be loving to my husband. I choose to pray. I choose to cut out luxury items so we can get out of debt. I choose to be a Sunday School teacher. I choose to pay my tithing. I choose to be a member of the church. And yes, I'm finally choosing to be a missionary.




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Thursday, August 20, 2009

The Role of Women



In our busy world- with our daily struggles I think sometimes we all forget how important we as women are to God's eternal plan. This video, the test of which was taken by a 2004 Talk by President Hinckley is a beautiful reminder of how important our role as women is.

It's been years since I was in the Young Women's program but watching this video I couldn't help but recall the Young Women's theme and how meaningful each sentence... each word is.

We are daughters of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him.
We will “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places”
(Mosiah 18:9) as we strive to live the Young Women values, which are:


Faith
Divine Nature
Individual Worth
Knowledge
Choice and Accountability
Good Works and
Integrity

We believe as we come to accept and act upon these values,
we will be prepared to
strengthen home and family,
make and keep sacred covenants,
receive the ordinances of the temple,
and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.

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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

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Sunday, August 16, 2009

quotable quotes: prioritizing

When God comes first in our lives, whatever comes second will likely change tomorrow. Furthermore, whatever comes second for me will likely be different for you. When God comes first in our lives, however, whatever comes second will always be right.
~ Camille Fronk Olson.
2006. pp. 106
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Saturday, August 15, 2009

Ten Proven Stress Reducers

Stress seems to be a big topic on my blog these days. I think it's because I'm so excited about dealing with it and ultimately conquering the majority of it and I want to share that with all of you. Tonight there was a wonderful talk on BYU given by Dr. LaNae Valentine, originally recorded in 2005. I tried looking for the exact talk online but failed to find a transcript, so I decided to take notes during the talk so I could share what I learned with all of you.

Certainty? In this world nothing is certain but death and taxes.
- Benjamin Franklin
Dr. Valentine says that if Benjamin Franklin lived in this world, he would add "stress" as a third certainty in life. Stress is normal and usually functions around time, or lacktherof, opposition, agency and consequences. Stress can be used for good. Stress can motivate us to get things done. "I work better under pressure." If there were no stress in our lives, that could almost be a depressant. We'd never get anything done. "The thing we're searching for is a balance," says Dr. Valentine.

Health Problems Affected by Stress:
  • High Blood Pressure
  • Chronic Bronchitis
  • Gastrointestinal Problems
  • Backaches
  • Headaches and Migraines
  • Skin Problems
  • Colds
  • Insomnia
  • Poor Concentration and Forgetfulness
  • Irritability
Stress is the real or imagined imbalance between the demands on a person and the person's ability to meet those demands.

Distress results when there are not sufficient coping mechanisms to meet the demands of the situation.
One of the biggest stresses in women is that we overextend ourselves. Why do we always try to do too much? How do we slow down? How do we cope with everything?
  • We live in a competitive society.
  • Women are caretakers and nurturers.
  • Feelings of unworthiness.
  • Addiction to stress.
"Sometimes we feel that the busier we are, the more important we are - as though our busyness defines our worth." - Joseph B. Wirthlin (2002)

Are You Hooked on Stress?
  • After making a speech, or completing a highly demanding or virtually impossible task, do you feel high?
  • You know you should enjoy a three-day weekend off from school or work, but do you secretly dread it, feeling guilty, unproductive, and worry during it?
  • Is your self-esteem higher when you're super busy?
  • Do you habitually take on more projects than you can comfortably do?
  • Do you feel that you accomplish more under pressure - and the more fierce the pressure, the better?
  • Do you often create unnecessary challenges for yourself, for instance, booking too many appointments close together and assuring yourself you can pull it off?
If you've answered "yes" to any of the above, you might have an addiction to stress.

Results of Unmanaged Stress:
  • An increase in muscle tension which results in muscle tightness, back pain, and/or chronic headaches.
  • Changes in breathing which results in shortness of breath or rapid, shallow breathing.
  • Increased activity in the brain which results to anxiety, racing thoughts, a lack of focus, or depressive symptoms.
  • Activity in the intestines which results in irritable bowel syndrome, diarrhea, heartburn, or even gastrointestinal reflux disease.
  • Increased inflammation in the coronary arteries which results in heart disease.
  • A weakened immune system which results in increased risk of infections, colds, flu, and other communicable diseases.
Ten Proven Stress Reducers

  1. Learn to say "No." Learn to say "Can you let me think about it?" instead of automatically saying yes. If you feel stress about doing this at all, say, "I'm sorry but I can't help at this time."
  2. Breathe from the belly. Breathe slowly with your hand on your belly. This will help you to relax and calm down.
  3. "I want to see men and women breathe the Holy Ghost in every breath of their lives, living constantly in the light of God's countenance." - Brigham Young
    Catherine Thomas made this comment regarding the above quote:
    Is Brigham Young suggesting that the Spirit is really a form of energy that can nourish us physically? I don't know. But what if I didn't analyze it but just turned my mind to do it? What if I were to take thought many times a day to "breath in the Holy Ghost" and saw myself living in the light of God's countenance; his face smiling at me as I consciously tried to receive his Spirit, his will, his nature?
  4. Tense to relax. Tense your muscles and relax them. Stretch your tensed muscles frequently.
  5. Slow down (Mindfulness). Do whatever you're doing with attention and care. Be in tune to your tasks. Do one thing at a time without thinking about multi-tasking. It's not all that it's cracked up to be. Do everything as thought it's the most important thing you're going to do. Stop and smell the roses. Pay attention to your surroundings.

  6. Are You Too Rushed and Unfocused?:
    • Have I recently had a conversation with someone and moments later, forgotten what we talked about?
    • Have I recently eaten my food so fast I had a queasy stomach afterward?
    • At the end of the day do I wonder what I accomplished in the preceding hours?
    • When talking to people am I often thinking about things I have to do rather than listening?
    • Do I often feel I am missing something even when doing things I enjoy?
    Use These Skills . . .
    • When driving - drive in the slow lane.
    • When waiting in a line in the grocery store.
    • When you feel impatient.
    • When eating, so that you taste and enjoy the flavors of what you're eating.
    • When you feel tired or bored.
    • When cooking or doing housework.
    Miracles are constantly occurring around us. Serendipities abound in daily life. The issue is not that these miracles are absent. The issue is that often we are absent. We are standing on a hill of diamonds and we are looking for the gold mine beyond the next ridge. As we reclaim ourselves, we begin to notice the extraordinariness of the ordinary. We quit thinking about being present and we start doing it. - Anne Wilson Schaef
  7. Gratitude. When you pay attention to positive things, you're telling your body that things are good and there is no reason to panic.
  8. Appreciate Yourself. Think about what would the world lose if you stopped doing things that you do. Honestly look at your life. What would be missed? At the end of the day think about one or two good things that were helpful, or that you were good for. Acknowledge your talents and service.
  9. Accept the things you cannot change. Sometimes we just need to let go.
  10. Regular exercise.
  11. Meditation.
  12. "We are all so busy with our mundane pursuits with pull us this way and that. We all need, the whole world needs, the opportunity to meditate and reflect on the things of God and to listen to words that inspire and help." - Gordon B. Hinckley (2003)
  13. Nourish yourself. Take a hot bath or shower.

An important calling: Counselor

Alright Mollys, I'm going to write this post, but I have to say, this isn't easy. I'm very ashamed of the way I acted today, and it's not easy to put our mistakes out there for the world to read! But hopefully, what I learned from my experience at church today will be a lesson to someone somewhere who will be able to avoid it in future.

When we moved into our ward, I was called as 2nd counselor in the Young Women's presidency. Shortly after, I had a talk with Amy, the president. She told me that in a few months she would be released due to her moving away from the area. She also said that the other counselor, Sophie, was unable to take on presidency roles due to her several small children and husband serving in the bishopric. Amy told me that she believed they had called me into YW for the purpose of training me to be president when she moved. At first, I thought this was a very daunting prospect, but as the weeks went by, I began to be more and more excited at this thought. I started wondering what I would change, and how much fun it would be to take the reins and go forward!

Well today, some of that came true. I was called into the bishop's office and released as 2nd counselor. Then I was re-called as 2nd counselor under a new president. Sophie stayed as 1st counselor. I raised my hand to sustain this new president at the appropriate time, but I had a nagging feeling of jealousy that I absolutely did not like. I prayed to Heavenly Father to help me get rid of these feelings, but they never fully went away.

As I drove home, I thought a lot about what had happened and how I felt. I thought about how in 13 years of adult church service, I had never held a president's responsibility. I had been a counselor in Relief Society, Primary, and now Young Women's, but I'd never been a president. Was I not good enough? Was there something wrong with me?

Then I thought of the leadership positions I've held outside of the church. At BYU I stage-managed 2 mainstage shows with large casts, designers, props, scenery, etc., and it was my responsibility to ensure the show progressed smoothly through rehearsals and performances, through setting up and taking down, all the way to the end. I remembered that in both instances, I knew I could never have done this job without my assistants. Then I started thinking that maybe that was the key - maybe being a good leader involves having good people supporting and counseling you. Maybe I wasn't meant to be in charge, but I was meant to be the good support that this person needed.

Then I thought about the structure of our church, and I realized there is no one person in charge on their own. Even our beloved prophet, President Monson, has 2 counselors. In every organization on every level there are counselors and assistants put there, I believe, to support, sustain, encourage and be of help to the president. What a tremendous responsibility that is, and how important those people are!

So as embarrassed as I am that I ever felt jealousy over a calling, I'm grateful that it gave me the chance to learn this very important lesson. If I spend the rest of my time in the Church as a counselor or assistant, I will be no more happy or sad than as a president. In all the callings and opportunities to serve that our Church offers, we are necessary, loved, and needed. A small calling or assignment that may not seem important can have lasting influence for good when we do it right with the right attitude of humility and service. It's my goal now to have that attitude and take it into every calling I ever get!






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Friday, August 14, 2009

Foto Friday--What are Megapixels?

Friends frequently call me up and ask for advice on which camera to buy, and one of the most common question that I hear is, "How many megapixels do I need?"

Well, let's answer that by first answering: What are megapixels?

The word “pixel” comes from “picture element.” Seriously - who would have known?! A picture element is basically a dot. Digital images are made up of these colorful dots put together in the right order to create a picture. One megapixel equals one million dots, or pixels. In general, the more pixels you have, the closer the dots, and the greater the capacity to record fine detail. All this means better picture quality.

The higher the number of megapixels your camera has, the more flexibility and options you will have when editing, cropping and printing your pictures. A larger original image will allow you to crop a smaller portion of the large photograph and still have a high quality print. However, a 4x6 printed image taken at 4 megapixels will most likely look just as good as a 4x6 image taken with an 8 megapixel camera. You will only notice the difference when the image is blown up to it's maximum quality size.

(I made a snazzy table, but couldn't for the life of me figure out how to get the table to copy into my post. Here's the info:)

Resolution Best print size (up to)
2 megapixels...........3x5 in.
4 megapixels ..........5x7 in.
6 megapixels ..........8x10 in.
8 megapixels ..........11x14 in.
10 megapixels ........13x17 in.
12 megapixels ........16x20 in.


Ask yourself: What size photos will I be printing? Can I tell a difference between 4.0 and 8.0 megapixels? Are the additional detail and original image size important to me? Remember that just because a camera has more megapixels than another does not mean that the images will be better.
Some other factors in photo and print quality are as follows:

  • Good lighting (ah, lighting--the most difficult factor for me!)
  • Quality of lens (good glass makes a huge difference!)
  • Steadiness of camera (keep still!)
  • Focus on the proper subject (if I focus on the wall in the background, megapixels will not help make my subject look any better!)
  • Proper shutter speed for moving or stationary subject
  • Clean equipment (darn those finger prints!)





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Wednesday, August 12, 2009

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Sunday, August 9, 2009

quotable quotes: the gospel & women

Biblical scholars and students alike have often perceived that Christ's reaction to women was unprecedented. Jesus has been described as the "first feminist," a champion of women's causes and a revolutionary in recognizing women's contribution to His work. But as I have studied the Mary and Martha texts, I get a different sense from the Savior's reaction to women. . .

. . . Through these examples, Christ championed not a separate cause for women but the cause for all the honest in heart, all those who desire to follow Him. The Lord's great contribution to the sexes was not to glorify the specific greatness of womanhood but to rejoice with each willing heart and mind, regardless of gender or status. He did not ignore women or treat them as doormats, a common occurrence in every era. But neither did He put women on pedestals or call them more spiritual or more charitable or more helpful than men. He responded to His female disciples with the same love and care with which He responded to His apostles and other male disciples. The Savior is no respector of persons: 'He inviteth . . . all to come unto him and partake of his goodness; and he denieth none that come unto him, black and white, bond and free, male and female; and he remembereth the heathen; and all are alike unto God, both Jew and Gentile' (2 Nephi 26:33).
~ Camille Fronk Olson.
"Mary, Martha, and Me."
2006. pp. 28-30
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Saturday, August 8, 2009

Latter-day Prophets: Lorenzo Snow


(Writer's note: Mollys, I need your input. I'm still trying to figure out the best way to do these posts - do you like a time table like this one, or a biography, or a series of links to resources? Any feedback is greatly appreciated!)




1814: Born 3 April 1814 in Mantua, Ohio.

1836: Baptized into the Church (age 22).

1837: Served a mission to Ohio.

1838-1839: Served a mission to southern Missouri, Illinois, Kentucky, Ohio

1840-1843: Served a mission to England.

1856: Married Charlotte Squires, Mary Goddard, Sarah Prichard, Harriet Squires (age 31).

1849: Ordained an Apostle (age 34).

1849-1852: Served a mission to Italy, arranged and supervised the translation of the Book of Mormon into Italian. (During this mission, also preached in England, France, Switzerland.)

1852: Elected to Utah legislature, where he served for 29 years.

1853: Supervised colonization of Brigham City, Utah.

1864: Served special mission to Hawaii.

1873-1877: Served as counselor to President Brigham Young (age 59-63).

1873-1880: Began United Order in Brigham City.

1885: Served a mission to Indians in northwestern United States (age 71).

1886-1887: Imprisoned for 11 months for practicing plural marriage.

1888: Offered dedicatory prayer at Manti Temple.

1889: Became president of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

1890: Manifesto ending plural marriage was issued.

1893: Became president of Salt Lake Temple.

1898: Visited by the Savior in the Salt Lake Temple. Ordained and set apart as Prophet of the Church.

1899: Promoted tithing in southern Utah.

1901: Died in Salt Lake City, Utah (age 87).


The doctrine he is probably best known for was introducing tithing as a regular part of being a member of the Church. At the time, the Church was deeply in debt, thanks to so much property being seized by the government, and Church members unable to tithe in fear that it would be stolen also. At a stake conference in St. George, Utah, the doctrine of tithing as a latter-day commandment came to him while he was addressing the Saints. Due to his declaration, the Church was able to become free of debt by the time his successor, Joseph F. Smith, served as prophet.

I strongly encourage everyone to visit this page to read the biography of President Snow. He brought forth several new doctrines on the eternal nature of man and the plan of salvation. He had an incredibly blessed and rich life, with much travel and trials.













Annike is a lifelong member of the church, married to her sweetheart, and taking life a day at a time. Feel free to stalk her blog at A Great Adventure.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Slowing It Down


My day is usually pretty packed. Like all of us, I have many roles I have to balance—wife, mother, housekeeper, CFO, cook, etc., etc. I have also the added privilege to be primary medical caretaker for my son, which involves a whole extra world of ‘sub-roles’.

Despite these massive responsibilities, I am ashamed to admit I have not gotten my life together enough to get to them all every day. Learning to find a balance has been difficult for me: adjusting to life as a mom to a special needs child is very challenging. My son got home from the hospital some 16 months ago, yet I still have no schedule, no plan in place. It seems, reflecting back on it now, that I have spent a good majority of that time in a blur of “what do I have to do next?”, running around like the proverbial headless chicken.

Yesterday I expressed this frustration to my husband and asked for a priesthood blessing of comfort. He gave me one, in which I was pretty much counseled to slow down my life. I think I took that in one ear and out my other, as I woke up today with a million things to do on my mental list. I raced through the morning, trying to pack in as many enriching/physically therapeutic/educational activities as I could for my son.

Naptime came. I decided to grab a snooze myself. Lying down on my recliner, I let my thoughts wander as I dozed off. What would have been a nice nap was, however, being boycotted by my son. He slept fitfully, waking every few minutes or so, eventually leading me to abandon plans for my nap. Gathering him in my arms, we snuggled down on the couch. He immediately calmed down and fell back asleep. Wide awake now, I saw the counsel given me by my husband come to pass: the longer I cuddled with him, the more I realized what a blessing that small moment in time was. I got to smell his wonderful baby hair, feel his soft skin. If I had decided to let him be awake, I would have pushed him into more activities and missed that beautiful moment. In addition, I was given more insight on some things I had been pondering, thoughts that surely would have passed me by if I hadn’t just let that time be.

Did I get everything done that I probably 'should' have? No. But I was grateful that, of all the things I have to be for my son on a minute-by-minute basis—nurse, respiratory therapist, germ-buster, advocate—for a few minutes, snuggling on the couch, I got to just be Mommy.

Here’s to slowing down a bit!



Devon is wife to a wonderful guy and mom to a superhero. Check her out at Defining Devon or see a real live Superman at The Daily Dakin.




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Thursday, August 6, 2009

I am Who I am


I wrote this little ditty many years back when I was finding my way. I dedicated it to all the women in the world, and I still do. Today, I like to break it out when the pressures of life make it hard to be myself and easy to start apologizing for my inabilities. Hope it makes an impact in your life.

I am who I am
I am who I am
Because my mother told me to be that way,
And if I was not,
Then I would surely hear about it!

I am who I am
Because the world around me told me I ought to be,
And without the world telling me
Who, in the world, would I be?

I am who I am
Because I was shown I was beautiful.
Not only inside and out
But everywhere, throughout me.

I am who I am
Because the associates around me
Are who they are,
And that is who I should be.

I am who I am
Because I discovered what was wrong with this picture.
Why I could not, would not, and should not
Be anything but me.

And so, I am who I am
Because I chose to be;
Not because something or somebody told me that
This, is how I should be.

I am who I am
Because the sun set one day,
And it cast colors of my life that had been seen
And many, that had yet to be seen.

I am who I am
Because that day when the sun set, I contemplated
What it meant to be me, in such a homogeneous,
Almost colorless society, in which I had created.

I became who I am
Because I found that different is good,
And that I don’t have to have my hair done, and my make-up on
To be beautiful.

I am who I am
Because my life has embraced me with strength, courage and ambition,
to be anyone and anything,
And still be proud of being me.

-Jennifer Brown Perkins-
Mountain
Molly

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

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Tuesday, August 4, 2009

SMA Awareness Month

August is Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) Awareness Month. This is a cause directly intertwined with my heart, as my son has a form of SMA that will bind him to a wheelchair and ventilator in this life. He has SMA with Respiratory Distress (SMARD). SMARD is extremely rare—maybe 60 people in the world have it.

SMARD is part of the Spinal Muscular Atrophy family of disease. SMA is the number one genetic killer of children under age 2, and many do not live to see their first birthday. SMA progressively robs a child of the ability to stand, walk, and sit unsupported. In its worst cases, it steals the ability to swallow and even breathe. All this happens while the child’s mind remains untouched. It often strikes, as in our case, when the child is just a few months old. We watched Dakin go from a perfectly normal child to one who cannot breathe without the help of a machine. We watched him lose muscle tone to the point that he cannot any longer sit up without help, or even play by himself. It is a horrifying experience.

SMA is a ‘common rare’ disease—one in 40 to one in 60 people carry the gene that causes SMA. Putting it in more realistic terms, of the 445 followers of Modern Molly Mormon on Twitter, approximately eleven of those followers carry this genetic defect. It may not seem like a lot, but that number shrinks significantly when SMA strikes your family. When two parents with the SMA gene mutation have a child, there is a 25% chance of that child being affected.

There is, however, hope on the horizon. Researchers estimate that a treatment and a cure could be found for SMA within five years, if given the resources. The Spinal Muscular Atrophy Treatment Acceleration Act is currently in Congress. This bill, which has bipartisan support, will allocate already existing funds from the National Institutes of Health toward SMA research and cure. It will match the fundraising efforts from the private SMA community. To pass it, we need your help. There is no one in the United Stated researching Dakin’s condition (SMARD), and so it is our hope that if the Act can be passed that it may benefit Dakin’s condition as well as curing SMA. To learn more about this bill and sign a petition to show your support, please visit http://www.petitiontocuresma.com/.


If you would like to learn more about SMA or find ways to help cure it, visit the Families of SMA website.







Devon is wife to a wonderful guy and mom to a superhero. Check her out at Defining Devon or see a real live Superman at The Daily Dakin.


Humpty Dumpty: Broken Things to Mend

We are all probably familiar with the nursery Humpty Dumpty...


Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall.
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
All the kings horses and all the kings men,
Couldn't put Humpty together again.

There are times in our lives that we feel like Humpty precariously perched right on the edge... Sometimes by our own poor decisions and sometimes placed their by no choice of our own. Many times we teeter on that edge for awhile then safely make it down but sometimes.... We fall.....

Broken beyond repair.... And like humpty neither the kings men nor his horses can put us back together again; But the King Can.

" I speak to those who are facing personal trials and family struggles, those who endure conflicts fought in the lonely foxholes of the heart, those trying to hold back floodwaters of despair that sometimes wash over us like a tsunami of the soul. I wish to speak particularly to you who feel your lives are broken, seemingly beyond repair.
To all such I offer the surest and sweetest remedy that I know. It is found in the clarion call the Savior of the world Himself gave. He said it in the beginning of His ministry, and He said it in the end. He said it to believers, and He said it to those who were not so sure. He said to everyone, whatever their personal problems might be:

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” 2
Jeffery R. Holland Broken Things to Mend

The Savior is there for each and every one of us - and can put our broken lives and hearts together when we ourselves and the world can not.... We just have to give him the pieces.

Audra, her prince charming and their toddler son live in a rural LDS community. You can find more of her ramblings at her blog Latter Day Lady or check out her digitial scrapbook designs at Audra's Little Scraps.


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Sunday, August 2, 2009

quotable quotes: virtue

The theme for August is Virtue.
In a letter to the church dated November 28, 2008 the First Presidency announced that a new value has been added to the Young Women theme, it is virtue. During the April 2009 General Conference an invitation was issued to all women to complete the activities outlined under the value Virtue. We at Modern Molly Mormon encourage all our readers to accept that invitation (the virtue value insert may be viewed as a pdf here, if English is not your preferred language other languages are available here).



An old sampler found in a museum in Newfoundland, stitched in 1813, reads: “Virtue is the chiefest beauty of the mind, the noblest ornament of humankind. Virtue is our safeguard and our guiding star that stirs up reason when our senses err.”

~President James E. Faust
Ensign, May 2003, 108
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The Lord's Anointed: Elder Robert D. Hales

Elder Robert D. Hales is is a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He was sustained to this office on April 2, 1994. He received his call as a General Authority on April 4, 1975. He served as an Assistant to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and later as a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy. He was Presiding Bishop of the Church from April, 1985 until called to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

He was a Regional Representative for five years prior to his call as a General Authority. He earlier served as a branch president, bishop, high councilor, and stake president’s counselor. He was president of the England London Mission in the late 1970s and has served as first counselor in the Sunday School general presidency.

Elder Hales was born in New York City. He is a graduate of the University of Utah and holds a master of business administration degree from Harvard. He served in the U.S. Air Force as a jet fighter pilot. Prior to his call to full-time Church service, Elder Hales had a distinguished business career, serving in executive positions with three major national companies. He and his wife, Mary Crandall Hales have two sons.

Quotes/Stories

I LOVED Elder Hales October (2008) conference address. Here is a quote from it that I particularly enjoyed:

"Surely our Heavenly Father is saddened—and the devil laughs—when we contentiously debate doctrinal differences with our Christian neighbors.

This is not to suggest that we compromise our principles or dilute our beliefs. We cannot change the doctrines of the restored gospel, even if teaching and obeying them makes us unpopular in the eyes of the world. Yet even as we feel to speak the word of God with boldness, we must pray to be filled with the Holy Ghost (see Acts 4:29, 31). We should never confuse boldness with Satan’s counterfeit: overbearance (see Alma 38:12). True disciples speak with quiet confidence, not boastful pride.

As true disciples, our primary concern must be others’ welfare, not personal vindication. Questions and criticisms give us an opportunity to reach out to others and demonstrate that they matter to our Heavenly Father and to us. Our aim should be to help them understand the truth, not defend our egos or score points in a theological debate. Our heartfelt testimonies are the most powerful answer we can give our accusers. And such testimonies can only be borne in love and meekness. We should be like Edward Partridge, of whom the Lord said, “His heart is pure before me, for he is like unto Nathanael of old, in whom there is no guile” (D&C 41:11). To be guileless is to have a childlike innocence, to be slow to take offense and quick to forgive."

Another of my favorite talks by Elder Hales, as a mother of a wayward child, was his April, 2004 address. In it, he said,

"Moses’ mother, Jochebed, guided her son down the river with faith in the “Shepherd … of [our] souls.” As parents, we too can trust the Good Shepherd to guide and direct us. Isaiah promised He “shall gently lead” all those who bear responsibility for the young.

He will help us trust and honor the principles of agency, opposition, and the Atonement even when our children make unwise decisions. Through His Spirit, He will help us teach our children to meet every challenge, trial, and tribulation in life by remembering who they are—children of God. We will be inspired with ways to help them “put on the whole armour of God,” so that they can withstand the “fiery darts of the adversary” with the “shield of faith” and “the sword of the Spirit.” As our children are spiritually armed and strengthened, He will bless them to endure faithfully to the end and return home, worthy to stand and live in their Heavenly Father’s presence forever.

Through it all, we will sorrow to see our family members suffer the slings and arrows of mortality. But we will stand all amazed at the love our Savior offers them. Because of Him, the buffetings need not defeat and destroy them but can soften, strengthen, and sanctify them.

To parents and families throughout the world, I testify that the Lord Jesus Christ is mighty to save. He is the Healer, the Redeemer, the rescuing Shepherd who will leave the ninety and nine to find the one. If we are seeking the salvation of special “ones” in our own families, I bear testimony that they are within His reach. We assist Him in reaching them by faithfully living the gospel, being sealed in the temple, and living true to the covenants we make there."

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